&Follow SJoin OnSugar
Successful business woman who is known in the public and a mother to one pre teen daughter is now finding herself starting over in the relationship department after her husband is caught having an affair with a 26 year old....

Step Dad's last morning with my daughter

Posted By Anonymous Woman on Sep 24, 2009 at 5:30AM

So....what a turbulent morning this was....the last day for my current husband to send off my little girl with me as she started her day to school...the emotions were high, I wore it on my face....my worry about the experience and how it will effect my daughter, have I ruined her on relationships? will she hate men ?

We get in the car, just her and I...she asks me if I'm ok? SHE asks ME? god she's an amazing kid....and as I worry about her tramatized state she looks at me and says.....

" Mom,...can the next guy you meet be rich? I'd like you to not have to work anymore" ....lol....we laughed so hard, I knew we were going to be fine...

Where to Begin....again.....

Posted By Anonymous Woman on Sep 22, 2009 at 6:14AM

Ok ....so here I am , loving my career, becoming well known in the small city I am part of ( About to find out how small this city really is) ...I'm minding my own business ( when I should have been minding his) and Bam!....I want a divorce....lol...ok really it wasn’t Bam! I saw it coming, we had grown apart, his temper and crazy outbursts started a year ago, but still....you never want to hear it....especially when its your second marriage.....but what do you do? when you are under a micro scoop and people want to watch your reaction like slowing down at a car crash just to see what you can see.....you buy yourself a fabulous dress and a hot pair of shoes...and you grab your girls for drinks and a good time....fake it....

But then reality hits.....oh my god...there are No men in this City ....at least none that I don’t already know their history, their Exes their life story, who they've slept with...and now they are hitting on me...like prime steak new to the market....yikes!

I'm not afraid of love, I believe in it....just the longevity comes into question...I plan on being the modern day Elizabeth Taylor....I'll marry 5 times if my heart lets me....

but its funny, even though I caught him with this 26 year old un attractive young woman, I think the only thing I was really mad about was that he down graded, I mean seriuosly....if you are going to cheat on me make sure she's hot seriously for  god sakes...I DO have a reputation to take care of....

 

// Group Members

teamsugar_widget_group_members